What does woman really signify to "him"

What does a woman contribute to his life? If you peel down all those layers of sweet, colorful words and find that it's nothing but home duties, bed, breakfast, lunch and dinner then he probably made you a hotel substitute! It should be a much deeper partnership than that.

It seems to me that from that monumental moment when Adam first saw Eve, the words of a man to woman have become less equated with the actual significance of the woman to a man's life.
Yes most Christians are reminded of her value, yes women have even evolved over the years, seemingly stronger because of being able to carry home duties as well as professional and for some maintaining our femininity all the same. BUT is it just our God who values us for who we truly are? Is He the only one who can call us what we are even yet to become?
The name Eve as given by Adam had a rich significance because he saw purpose in her. He loved her and his words matched what he did.
Millenniums down the line, here we are still men and still women yet things have run amuck! Should the men say we have changed so they have changed, that would seem fair but I would beg to differ and say could it be that the women who soared in the past were able to do so were loved by men who didn't change even when they changed, who called out what wasn't even there yet, who saw the deeper value beyond duties?
Nevertheless nothing is too messed for God...so even though my thoughts could indicate a blurry messy picture, I know that the answer lies inside me for out of my belly shall flow living waters the scripture says it starts at 1corinthians 13.....and as my spiritual Father says we are rubbing back to the days of Eden but we will not find Adam before the fall but Christ who was sent to restore, rebuild, revive, renew! After the fall. Shalom :-)

What does woman really signify to "him"

What does a woman contribute to his life? If you peel down all those layers of sweet, colorful words and find that it's nothing but home duties, bed, breakfast, lunch and dinner then he probably made you a hotel substitute! It should be a much deeper partnership than that.

It seems to me that from that monumental moment when Adam first saw Eve, the words of a man to woman have become less equated with the actual significance of the woman to a man's life.
Yes most Christians are reminded of her value, yes women have even evolved over the years, seemingly stronger because of being able to carry home duties as well as professional and for some maintaining our femininity all the same. BUT is it just our God who values us for who we truly are? Is He the only one who can call us what we are even yet to become?
The name Eve as given by Adam had a rich significance because he saw purpose in her. He loved her and his words matched what he did.
Millenniums down the line, here we are still men and still women yet things have run amuck! Should the men say we have changed so they have changed, that would seem fair but I would beg to differ and say could it be that the women who soared in the past were able to do so were loved by men who didn't change even when they changed, who called out what wasn't even there yet, who saw the deeper value beyond duties?
Nevertheless nothing is too messed for God...so even though my thoughts could indicate a blurry messy picture, I know that the answer lies inside me for out of my belly shall flow living waters the scripture says it starts at 1corinthians 13.....and as my spiritual Father says we are rubbing back to the days of Eden but we will not find Adam before the fall but Christ who was sent to restore, rebuild, revive, renew! After the fall. Shalom :-)

perspective

It's not about the many who disappoint but about the few who never fail you.Thank you Lord for my true and loyal people :-)

Mark2:17

We often limit God's power because we remove Him from our reality and shelf Him only in the faith and spirit realm. We assume that He came to take us from reality to the "unreal" and yet He actually came and lived not only our reality in the son Jesus but for our reality! Mark 2:17(KJV)
"When Jesus heard it, he saith unto them, They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick: I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance."
When we drop the fakeness we usher Him in, He is here for my reality and yours..invite Him in and it will be well!My brother will be well IJN

Luke 7:45-47

Luke 7:45-47

Thou gavest me no kiss: but this woman since the time I came in hath not ceased to kiss my feet.

My head with oil thou didst not anoint: but this woman hath anointed my feet with ointment.

Wherefore I say unto thee, Her sins, which are many, are forgiven; for she loved much: but to whom little is forgiven, the same loveth little.

The desperate heart, the true and total worship from contrite and broken heart, the transparent actions from an honest place, they avail much! 

Wild harness

Having been in tight spaces, I have learnt the meaning of "wilderness" is really a "wild harness", because like a wild animal cornered the instict forces that animal to fight!The tight place is the place of wild harnessing: harnessing the word in you, harnessing the resevoirs of strength the Lord carefully plants in you for times like this, harnessing greatness, harnessing discipline because the dirt comes to the surface and can be dealt with, harnessing wisdom. 2Corinthians 4:17,Romans5:3-5

The approach seperates us.

There is little difference in the course of life for mankind, the major difference lies in APPROACH.
Spiritual Approach-what we believe,  what guides us, what we live by.

Mental Approach-what we think.

Physical approach-how we live
Practical Approach-what we do.

Rest sweet Rest

Past the midnight hour....between the hope of a new day and the fear of past failed days...the echoing voice of the Holy Spirit whispers REST into my restless spirit. The definition of me by God in genesis 1:27 ,"He created them both male AND  female in His image".....it reminds with the pressures of life, with the cages threatening to close around me, with the tears unseen, frustrations seemingly unending, the desperate fight for a breakthrough, the plea for a change of tides ,despite all of this..I HAVE POTENT DIVINITY in my genetic encoding and this is the assurance that I will win this, I was engineered to win and Christ in me is the absolute authority over anything that threatens to overpower me!....rest, rest, rest :-)

The situation may not look right but the Lord is right in that situation so it's just going to be alright!
Romans 9:15-17KJV

¹⁵For he saith to Moses, I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion.
 ¹⁶So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy.
 ¹⁷For the scripture saith unto Pharaoh, Even for this same purpose have I raised thee up, that I might shew my power in thee, and that my name might be declared throughout all the earth.

2Samuel 21:10

Like Rizpah, sometimes we can not escape the dark days or trials in life, we have to go through them &get the breakthrough only after we have suffered a while.When she could not save her babies from execution, she only had her courage, loyalty & the undying love of a mother left to fight, she camped by their decaying bodies around the rock until THE RAIN FELL! 3 years of famine in the land but the silent, powerful actions of the woman changed the atmosphere! And she was not even a woman of good reputation prior to this!Thankful for Rizpah's powerful testimony!

Choose His presence

"The animal(pig&dog) lifestyle"  has an outer glittery apperance  but has an intrinsic value of strife,emptiness and destruction, at it's best it strips you of everything including your dignity. "The His presence lifestyle" may have a rough outer appearance but  has an unlimited intrinsic value.It is bountiful, full of fruit, has a guarenteed reward and promises victory!

The heart..again!proverbs17:16

Proverbs 4:7

Wisdom is the principle thing;therefore get wisdom : and with all your getting get understanding. BUT

Prov17:16

Why is there a price in the hand of a fool to get wisdom, seeing he has no heart for it?

And once again, the state of the heart of an individual(intentions) play a major role in the fruits of whatever that individual seeks. The word of God will always be profound and true!

Living

Sometimes its bravery just to live life but it's certainly a better position than ending the race prematurely , never fully harnessing the potential God has put inside of you, never having seen the promises of victory in Christ...I'm thankful  to be alive, so much more unwritten :-)

Matthew22.39

According to Bishop T.D Jakes married couples find themselves in trouble when they either sieze to see & treat each other as an opportunity & more as opposition or they start to present themselves  to each other as opposition not as an opportunity.True!people will treat you how you market yourself & will relay back to you the treatment you give them & the words you speak into them.Matt22:39

The eyes of a winner

Numbers 13:23-33
 Verse 30.And Caleb stilled the people before Moses, and said, Let us go up at once, and possess it; for we are well able to overcome it
Winners see opportunities when everyone else is blinded by the problem.

hmmmm.....

Having a true new beginning requires a FINAL good-bye.
The Familiar has no placce in the New.
Thinking of Isaiah 43:19 and  2 corinthians5:17

Today's lesson

It's amazing what focusing on the solution and not the problem can do to the 'impossible'. We are often are more able than we believe, more potentially loving than we allow ourselves to be, more instrumental and useful than we think. Had an amazing learning day today, may your week be as insightful!

It's got nothing to do with public opinion.

"Public Opinion" is an enemy of purpose. The pursuit and discovery of purpose has a divine,spiritual key and compass  and is personal.

Spiritual wisdom can be proven by scientific facts :-)

Scientific fact:With battery powered appliances, it is not advisable to use old batteries with new ones because it reduces the optimum usage of the new batteries which are in a way "strained" by the weakness of the old ones.For maximum optimisation, a balance is needed
Spiritual wisdom: 1.Matt9:17 new wine in old wine skin will burst the old wine skin and waste the new wine
                           2.Proverbs11.1 A false balance is an abomination to the Lord

Be careful who you write off.

Writing people off in the Kingdom of Good is not as black and white as writing off unpaid accounts in accounting and business...in the Kingdom of God, the hidden, silent gems are the ones you ought to look out for because the Lord is polishing them to shine, the Lord secretly picks them out.
they are "gardens enclosed, springs shut up,fountains sealed!" Songs of Solomon4:12

Who are you talking to?

In life there are people who speak to and draw out your potential and there are some who drag you further away from it! Remember that 

"Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof."Proverbs18:21

So sometimes guarding your potential and your destiny is greater than a "popularity" chase. 

Psalm 1:3.... Whatsoever he "doeth" shall propsper.False entitlement is the biggest enemy to success, just because you are blessed doesn't mean you should sit back, God has blessed us to DO exploits for the kingdom!

Nothing can seperate you from His love

God is with us for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, and not even death can seperate us from His love so why only remember Him in sickness, in poverty  or on the death bed?

From a Caterpillar to a butterfly

From a Caterpillar to a butterfly! A life with Christ
He beautifies
He enables you soar
He creates a new thing!

Wouldn't it be nice....

Some people are held back because they spend all their forward moving energy trying to hold you back. We'd be so progressive if we'd be just be happy for and support one another.

It's more than the gift that produces fruit.

What's a gift without character? powerless and limited!
Gifts make way for you(Proverbs18:16) but character sustains you in the journey.

Hosea 4:6, Proverbs4:7

Knowledge and understanding are not an accessory, they are a neccessity!
Hosea 4: 6 (KJV) My people perish from a lack of knowledge. 

^Proverbs4:7 Wisdom is the principal thing;
      Therefore get wisdom.
      And in all your getting, get understanding.

The love variable

For every misunderstanding that adds the love variable to the equation, balancing occurs, for every misunderstanding that subtracts the love variable, balancing is impossible. 2 Corinthians 13:4-8.Enjoy your day!

ditch the petty stuff!

Some of the things we women hate on are beyond petty.Who said hate could diminish any of the beauty in the person you are hating???It only diminishes yours and puts hers in  the limelight.

Proverbs6:16-19These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him:
A proud look, a lying tongue....
 An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations....
 A false witness that speaketh lies and he that soweth discord among brethren.

Our role

We are in the world to  affect it not to get infected. by it :-) Enjoy your Sunday y'all!

There is untapped power!

We get so discouraged by our humanity because we forget the divinity within us.


Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. 2 Corinthians5:17KJV