Friday, July 8, 2011

validation, is it worth it?

Validation is it worth it?

When you hurt, struggle , get frustrated and mask it with the 'I'm all put together act' because God forbid you should show an inkling of weakness or admit to needing help! Is the social validation worth internal death and filth unreleased on the inside?

When you let your girls be all up in your personals giving you their "perfect" pieces of advice which sometimes can only apply to their life and their situation. Is your girls' validation worth your family , relationship and marital functionality and success?

When you own all the latest brands, live the posh lifestyle and are always up to date regardless of higher priorities and size of your account. Are the latest trends and posh lifestyle worth the financial strain?

When you let family dictate your every move and push you where they think you ought to be and go. Is family validation worth your true purpose?

When you robotically pick up the lingo, the lifestyle the culture of your brothers and sisters in Christ,cram but don't understand Genesis to Revelations and have no real internal transformation nor change in your life is the church validation worth the rich depth of being in Christ?

When you let the one you love and you assume 'loves ' you back abuse every value and every gift God gave you.Talking your self-esteem into the ground,letting him/her return your loyalty with the slap of unfaithfulness.letting him swap Godly leadership for cold calculated oppression. Or letting her superficial lifestyle drive you into debt.Opening your heart to slow but steady bit by bit crushing of yourself.hardening your beautiful loving heart because of the daily wounding.Is his/her validation worth your sparkle?

When you're turning your nose up on God  because there's 'hypocrisy' in church as though there's a place on earth where you don't find hypocrisy. In truth its just to fit in with the cool kats. Is validation worth your soul?

I've come to the conclusion that seeking validation of others is worth one thing... It's worth the satisfaction,happiness and wellbeing of everyone BUT YOURSELF
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