Love

LOVE : so misused and abused. Some say it's easy I say not entirely.The core parts of love are sacrifice,death to self,forgiveness,commitment,understanding ,trust,tolerance....none of which are easy but once the work is put in the fruits of the work are easy,things start to run smoothly,hurt fades into the background and growth,nurturing ,partnership and joy fill the frontal space.The problem is that we want the fruits without the work.I know it gets tiring especially if the work being put in is one sided but rewards always come if the choice of who to love was right in the first place.If you love the wrong kind of person,no matter how much work you put in,you will be bruised.Choose wisely and love correctly,the combination of the two will save uneccessary heartache and relationship turmoil.